The Belief Zone by Ursula Mentjes

Author:Ursula Mentjes [Mentjes, Ursula C.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Motivational Press
Published: 2017-11-28T23:00:00+00:00

Step #3: Sync

“You can live your life angry, bitter, mad at somebody or even guilty,

not letting go of your own mistakes,

but you won’t receive the good things God has in store for you.”

~ Joel Osteen ~

“I don’t know. Maybe we’ll just adopt. We’re open to having a baby no matter how it comes,” I said, knowing that wasn’t the truth but trying to convince myself more than her. It seemed like all of my friends and colleagues were pregnant at the same time and I could feel them look at me with sad eyes when they didn’t think I was looking. The truth was, I wasn’t ready to give up on my dream—our dream—to have a baby naturally.

“Urs, I can’t wait ‘til you have your baby. I know this is going to happen for you. I believe…” she started, and then lit up with excitement as the idea hit her: “What if this isn’t any different than all of the other goals you’ve achieved?”

The energy of what she said hit me full force, but I couldn’t wrap my head around it. “What do you mean?”

“Well, what if you used all of the same skills and tools you have used to double and triple your sales and help others do the same…on this dream of having a baby…and moving back to Minnesota?”

I sat back in the spa—that’s where we do all of our best brainstorming about life and business—and let it sink in.

Yeah, what if I did?

She let me sit with it for a while and then turned the tables on me, asking me the questions that I should have been asking myself, “You’re clear that you want a baby and that you want to raise that baby in Minnesota with your family. I’m certain you’ve been writing it down. And now, you just need to do the rest of what you do with your goals, right? What’s the next step in your process? What is keeping this baby from coming to you…and keeping you from just getting up and moving to Minnesota?”

As soon as she asked the questions, I noticed the tension in my body and the inner conflict that was coming up for me again around having a baby and moving back to my home state. And then I searched for the next step in my process and how to integrate it here…and I laughed out loud.

I need to let go. All of this tension and inner conflict isn’t the frequency that will attract what I want. I need to let go of the How and When. And just step into the vibration that is a match for what I want.

Stop Squeezing

One of the reasons we didn’t move back to Minnesota for a long time is because I squeezed the life out of that goal! I stalked it. I haunted it. I scared it when it wasn’t looking. Get the picture? I was holding on so tight that even if that goal wanted to spring to life, it couldn’t

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